“Different strokes for different folks” goes the old saying, and we should hardly be surprised that sexual relations take such varied forms. Among all the varieties and eccentricities, flogging and discipline based role-play is one such intriguing source of pleasure.

While some would regard spanking as a sadistic practice, the pain-pleasure dynamic is key element of power exchange relationships, and can spice up your sexual life.

While many people derive more pleasure from inflicting punishment on there partner or vice versa, it is a good idea to develop and fully explore the roles with your partner, and experience the full variety of erotic pleasure proffered by these student/teacher or dominatrix/sub roles.

”English discipline” has had its variations throughout history and the  name derives from the discipline applied to British students in Victorian times, which often became a sexual habit in adulthood, the perfect rebuttal for all those who say school does not educate.

In role-play which takes these historical guidelines into account, strokes are normally applied with a rattan can across the buttocks, although they can also be applied in other parts of the body. Technique and the instruments can vary widely on people and rely heavily on the desires of the teacher, but needless to say that like any form of sexual play, English discipline should only be undertaken with the consent of both parties and always looking for new dimensions of erotic pleasure.  If you are interested in trying new forms of pleasure with your partner why not rent apartments in Seville and tell your partner “Behave!”

Consumers of hard-core XXX movies are well aware that the actors and actresses often have huge breasts and fabulous bodies that attract millions of viewers around the world. But as the old saying goes, different strokes for different folks, and Shigeo Tokuda, the oldest porn star of all time, has found a huge audience despite his advanced age.

Tokuda is 75 years and is known on film sets as Ishii. He ensures that the important thing in life is to grow old but stay in shape. The actor arrived to the world of pornographic films by chance, as many do. He made friends with a director who, in addition to producing conventional porn videos, also wanted to venture into films for older people. Suddenly Tokuda found himself back on the job.

In five years he has starred in nearly 300 films and had relationships with approximately 150 women. If this is not a testament to his virility, then nothing is. How does he do it? His secrets are quite simple. His diet is based on vegetables and fish; he doesn’t smoke, drinks very little alcohol, walk a lot and does not consume Viagra. “I treat this like any other job. I take pleasure in doing so because I like to get into the skin of different characters, and sometimes I feel depressed when I think I’ve done something wrong, so I watch my performances to see if I can improve” he said.

But the most curious of all is that Ishii’s family, which consists of his wife of 46 years and two children, have no idea about his new career. He explains that no one understands or knows because, for example, if he were to tell his school friends, they would look down on him. So now you know how to age like a porn star: eat lots of fish and vegetables, exercise, and avoid drugs, smoking and alcohol.  If you want to implement these steps, you can rent apartments in Seville, famous for its healthy Mediterranean cuisine and sensual atmosphere, to feel like a real porn star.

In classical literature the figure of the Amazon, a strong feminine warrior like those found in the great stories of Greek mythology, constantly reappears.  She overtakes everything she finds, and ends up victorious. These independent, strong women are role models that many women would like to resemble. However, they are not just mythological figures, and there are actual gender and social classifications in the world that have women that could be likened to the amazons.

For example, the Vehine Mako, also called Shark Women, lived in the Marquesas Islands, and was known for their sexually assertive behaviour. Thanks to a study conducted on the islands in the 70´s by researcher Dr. Kirkpatrick, we know a bit the alternative sexuality of these women. In his research, Kirkpatrick described women known for their aggressive and vigorous sexuality who were not ostracized for their behaviour. They always took the initiative, despite the fact that it was the typical male role. These women are not necessarily powerful or rich, and this determination is based on their sexual practices, not social status.

Another culture in which women were clearly the dominant force was among the Blackfoot tribe in northern Montana.  Some women were classified as having a “Heart of Man.” These women were characterized by their boldness, aggression, independence, and sexuality. What distinguished them from the Vehine Mako? Generally they were rich and powerful within the tribe, and married. Another anthropologist, Dr. Lang, found that Vehine Mako woman enjoyed the privileges of masculinity.

What do you think? I find it fascinating that in other cultures, the social structure accommodated women in clearly dominant roles and that for example, could initiate or reject sexual contact without risking their status. Why not take a lesson from this story and rent apartments in Seville, to devote yourself fully to the wishes of your girlfriend?

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Traditionally, gay men have  been required to be define themselves  as  active or passive early on in their sexual relations and unfortunately, this generally continues to be the case today, being one of the first issues raised when deciding to initiate a relationship.  Unfortunate, because many seem to assume that there is no other option than being one or the other or intermediate position.

In this way, and usually with certain laziness, one must pigeonhole himself, and may never satisfy that curiosity about how the grass is on the other side.  And just think of the bad luck if you meet someone with whom you both coincide in the same role.

Apart from verifying the size of someone’s “endowment” it would be perhaps the next most absurd question- except that is usually raised at the time of meeting someone with whom one is looking to strike sexual gold.

Just in case anyone still doesn’t have the issues at stake entirely clear, being sexually passive implies that one seeks pleasure by receiving their partner openly in the sexual act, and one waits to although the other to fill the voids- in the best sense of the word – using the power bestowed by his noble erection, end perhaps superior physical strength. On the other side of the coin, the active party enjoys taking the reins and making a pretzel of their compliant and flexible partner, along them to walk on the ceiling with pleasure, both literally and figuratively while punctuating the penetrative action with a rousing spank.

You don’t have to be too bright too realize that these stock roles leave out a lot of possible erotic possibilities on the spectrum of human sexuality, but until very recently, this middle ground did not have its own gay slang.  But fortunately for today’s gay, we are now free from having to opt for one of these two extremes, thanks to the adoption of the term “versatile” to define the attitude that one is potentially able to adapt easily and quickly to different situations and moods as the situation warrants it.

For this reason, why no take a getaway and rent apartments in Seville. Venture out and prepare yourself; if you actually dare to ask this outdated question to someone (not our advice, but), if that someone answers ” Versatile, baby, versatile,” rather than making a  bewildered face, feel the desire and erotic potential inspired by the unknown.  Let your horny imagination go wild and explore the possibilities of your own versatility: you might just surprise yourself.

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